Help

How can I get in contact with other members?

As soon as you have registered and taken the PARSHIP test you can send contact requests to your recommended partners. Alternatively you can use the Icebreaker, Smile and Make a comment features to initiate contact. You can also release your photo on a one-to-one basis as an initial sign of interest. You can do all this even if you are not a Premium (paying) Member.

Contact request

This is an initial message, which you can choose to keep brief or which you can make a little more expansive.

Icebreaker

This is a fun way to start things off. You send the recommended partner of your choice a little ready-made questionnaire with three four short questions. You each answer the questions and then compare your answers.

Smile

You can send an online smile to make a positive comment on a particular aspect of a recommended partner's profile.

Make a comment

With this feature you can react to what one of your recommended partners has said in the What's on my mind right now section of his/her profile.

Read and reply to messages

Premium members are able to exchange unlimited messages with other members. As a non-paying member, you will be able to read and reply to the first message you receive from another member.

If you want to read and answer contact requests or messages, or view photos that have been released to you on a one-to-one basis, you need to become a Premium Member.